Friday, July 29, 2011

The Unexpected Detour : A Vacation Tale

All smiles, ready for some vacation fun.

On a brilliant Sunday in 1994, my husband and I, along with our little daughter, headed down the interstate in a worn out van, pulling a pop-up camper behind us. It had been a long day, and we were anxious to reach our vacation destination in the Great Smoky Mountains. Just a couple more hours and we’d be in Chattanooga, where we planned to camp for the night, then head to Pigeon Forge the next morning.

"Dad," It was Anna from the back of the van. "How many more miles?"

No answer.

"Dad! How many more miles?"

Still, no answer.

"Stan," I said, "Anna wants to know how much farther to Chattanooga." I glanced at my husband, who was staring in the left rear-view mirror, a perplexed look on his face.

Suddenly, he turned to me. “Do you smell something?”

The tone of the question unsettled me. I sniffed, but didn’t smell a thing. "What does it smell like?"

"Something burning," he said. "I'm afraid we've got a serious problem."

At the next rest area, Stan walked around like a bloodhound picking up a scent. He found oil splattered across the back of the van and the front of the little camper. It looked ugly and I felt sick.

Pulling out his tools and jack, he set out to diagnose the problem. My daughter and I spread a quilt out under a tree, where I quickly sank down with my misery.

It’s always something, Lord, I muttered under my breath. Always something.

If only Stan would have listened to me, we wouldn’t be in this predicament. When the idea of a vacation first came up, I expressed deep concerns over taking such a long trip. The van had been in our family since it rolled off the showroom floor, shiny and new, in 1983. But since that time, it had accrued more than 200,000 miles. Still, being the eternal optimist that he is, my husband was convinced all would be fine. 

Now, here we sat on the side of the road, a sad little bunch. So much for optimism.

Before long, Stan rounded the corner. There was an oil leak. He said if we drove slow and stopped to add oil every few miles, we should make it to the next town. We would spend the night there, then have it looked at tomorrow.

Back in the van, we crept along the freeway in silence. My mood plummeted with each miserable mile. 

Soon darkness gathered at the windows, chasing us into a tidy campground in Gadsden, Alabama: Noccalula Falls Park and Campground. We registered at the office and arrived at our campsite in a dreary mood. After setting up camp, we fell into bed, exhausted.

If you look closely, you can see the oil splatters on the pop-up.
(I wasn't a blogger in 1994, but, as you can see, a persistent photographer.)

In the morning, I rose to the inviting aroma of breakfast cooking. Through the canvas flap, I saw my husband frying bacon in a skillet, four round eggs beside him, waiting to be cracked and scrambled.

I opened the door an inch. "Whatcha doing?"

He smiled. "Making the best of a bad situation. Let’s eat." 

My amazing husband. Always rolling with the punches.

Over breakfast, Stan handed me some brochures. “I got these from the office,” he said. “Looks like a neat place.”

Still depressed, I nodded but wasn’t interested.

"I'll take the van to the dealership and see what the problem is," he said. "You know how that goes; I may be gone all day. But—" he said, sounding encouraged, “maybe we can do some sightseeing tomorrow."

I didn’t say anything, but if I had, it would have been, Have you lost your mind? Sightseeing? It was the last thing I was in the mood to do, but I kept quiet.

We finished eating and I watched Mr. Optimistic drive off at a snail's pace, a trail of gray smoke following him. How, I wondered, could he always take such things in stride? He really expected to enjoy our visit to this unexpected town.

“Mom,” my little daughter’s voice interrupted my dismal thoughts. “Can we go to the pool?”

“Sure, sweetie,” I said, forcing a smile. “I’m right behind you.”  I could see the local paper’s headline now: Distraught woman drowns herself in campsite pool.

My angel girl at the pool, cheering her mommy up with that adorable smile.

Just before dusk, Stan drove up in a rental car. From the way he clumped into the camper, I knew it was bad news.

And it was. After a full day of waiting on a diagnosis, another full day was needed for repairs. The cost proved staggering. We discussed payment options. None brought relief. Later, I climbed into bed, wondering if this whole trip had been one giant mistake.

The next morning, despite my lingering gloom, we set out on a sightseeing excursion, trying not to think about why we were here. We discovered that Noccalula Falls Park and Campground, lying at the foot of the Appalachian Mountains, is both large and enchanting. A place of unspoiled natural beauty.




Not far from our campsite, we followed a sunny path to a stone monument of Noccalula, an Indian princess, poised as if about to jump from a 90-foot cliff. Cold water swirled around her feet and rushed over the ridge, creating a spectacular waterfall. Legend has it that Noccalula's father promised his daughter's hand in marriage to a member of an enemy tribe, in an effort to obtain peace. But the Indian maiden was in love with a man from her own tribe. Seeing no happy ending, she is said to have jumped to her death from this very cliff.


A few feet away, we took steep steps down into the cool gorge below the falls. As we navigated the slippery trail, I paused in a mossy clearing and looked up.

Out of the frothy spray of the waterfall, giant cedars and evergreens rose up like fluted columns and, overhead, yellow sunlight winked through a canopy of leafy branches. "Beautiful, isn't it?" Stan said.

“Yes,”  I said, mesmerized. "It is absolutely gorgeous."

After lunch, we hiked along a narrow trail that curved around magnificent pines, winding its way to the top of a straw-covered hill. Looking down to the valley below, I was captivated.  


The air was alive with the smells and sounds of summer. Breathing deeply, I sensed a lightness of heart, as if this were the place I should be.

As we gathered for supper that evening, we couldn’t stop talking about the enjoyable day we had spent together, and the spectacular beauty that was ours for the taking. Had our trip stayed on course, we would never have seen this delightful place.

Noccalula Falls remains one of our all-time favorite memories, and it was there I learned a valuable lesson: No matter where the road may take me, I won’t let an unexpected detour spoil the day. Instead, I will follow its impulsive path to the sunlight and shadows just waiting to be discovered in serendipitous places.


This story is taken from the book, Silver Linings (Pacific Press) by Dayle Allen Shockley. All rights reserved.



Wednesday, July 27, 2011

A Hole in the Wall ~ Simple Pleasures


The Man and I spent a quiet weekend on Galveston Island.

Whenever we're here, one of our favorite places to eat is at Shrimp & Stuff.

The line to get in is often wrapped around the building.

It doesn't look like much, but the food makes up for it.


What simple pleasure are you celebrating today? I'd love to hear about it.
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Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Attitude Matters : A Parable

I don't know who wrote the following little story, but it remains one of my favorite attitude parables and it's too good not to share. If you've heard it already, just humor me.


There once was a woman who woke up one morning, looked in the mirror, and noticed she had only three strands of hair on her head.

Well,” she said, “I think I’ll braid my hair today.” So she did, and she had a wonderful day.

The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and saw that she had only two strands of hair on her head.

“Hmm,” she said, “I think I'll part my hair down the middle today.” So she did, and she had a grand day.

The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that she had only one strand of hair on her head.

“Well,” she said, “today I'm going to wear my hair in a pony tail.” So she did, and she had a fun day.

The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that there wasn't a single strand of hair on her head.

“YAY!” she exclaimed, “I don't have to fix my hair today!”

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Attitude is everything. In the words of Emory Austin, "Some days there won't be a song in your heart. Sing anyway."






Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Simple Pleasures ~ Just a little puddle

It's not much ... just a little rain puddle ... but such a welcomed sight these days.


Welcome to Simple Pleasures. Have you discovered a simple pleasure lately? Maybe something new, or something old, or something taken for granted most days? If you're joining us for the first time, please read the guidelines before linking up. If you check back and your link has been deleted, it isn't personal. You'll find the reason in the guidelines.

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What's your simple/summertime pleasure?
 P.S. Sorry for the delay. Mr. Linky is moody sometimes.


Saturday, July 16, 2011

Do Not Be Anxious : Matthew 6:25-33

Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?


Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?


And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?


And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin


Yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.


But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?


Therefore do not be anxious, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?'

For your heavenly Father knows that you need these things.

But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

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Photo source: Beauty by God; photos by Dayle





Thursday, July 14, 2011

Where Bloggers Create : A Tour of My Space

The lovely Karen, at My Desert Cottage, is hosting the 3rd Annual Where Bloggers Create blog party. This is my first year to link up, and I'm excited to see all of the great spaces that will be showcased.

But first, a tour of my creative space ...


Having a room of my own is a blessing. It is a sanctuary, if you will—where I can shut out the world and just write … or piddle, depending on how the wind’s blowing (piddling is just one guilty pleasure of being retired.)

Since 1989, when we bought our home, this room has been my home office.

A little history, if you have time or interest. It wasn’t always the case, having a room of my own. In the early years of my writing dreams, The Man and I lived in an adorable little rent house. He bought me an old desk from a friend and set it up in the middle of the living room. Space was scarce. And time was even more scarce. My daughter was just learning to walk, which meant I was always busy. But still, I wrote. Between my baby’s naps, between meals, and in the deep night hours, I could be found pounding away on the keys of my second-hand typewriter. Such passion I had. Such determination.

That was proof right there that you need not have a room of your own for creating; all you need is desire and energy. But having your own little space is a blessing, and I thank God for giving me this simple room to call my own.

Welcome to my home office, dear bloggers.

Please come in and look around. It doesn't look like much, and it’s a bit boring compared to others, but some days it feels like everything.

Kind friends, let me be the first to say that all of this clutter on the walls is an eyesore.

Yikes!

But this clutter is a small sampling of some of my work, and I keep it visible to encourage me to press on, when I'm seemingly out of gas, which seems to be quite often these days.

Seeing my first full-page article and first 3/4–page article in print sent me into my very loud and rambunctious happy-dance-while-squealing-routine. I guess you could say it was one of those "make a joyful noise unto the Lord" moments. :)


Hanging over my dear mother-in-law’s piano are the covers of my three books.

On quiet evenings, I sit here and play ... and think

... and marvel at God's unmerited goodness to me.

So many dreams have come true,
and I’m filled with gratitude.
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One of the staples on my desk is this little daybook my mom gave me many years ago.

Historical dates, such as birthdays and anniversaries, dates that loved ones passed away, are all noted inside. I add to it, as needed.

My twin sister gave me this wonderful treasure box.
Hemingway had it correct, I must say.


Inside are flash drives and favorite pens, a few stamps and business cards.
...

On those rare perfect days we get here in Southeast Texas, I grab the laptop and head outdoors. I'm never disappointed by the inspiration found there.


Ever wondered how much work it takes to write an article? That depends on the assignment, of course, but you're looking at what it took for a single article that appeared in the "healthy living" section of a newspaper. Pages and pages of research, drafts, editor's correspondence, interview transcripts. Did I mention a deadline?

In case you're wondering what this contraption is, it's a digital voice recorder. Whenever you write articles, you almost always have to conduct interviews with experts or subject matters. With this piece of equipment, I can plug it into my cell phone, put on the headpiece, and talk to anyone from anywhere, and it's all recorded on this little device for me to decipher later. Handy, huh?
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When I retired from my day job in 2008, it took me awhile to get my balance, but once I did, I made a decision that shocked even me.

I decided I would write less and play more. 

I wasn't sure I wanted to ever work as hard again as writing on assignment requires you to do.

Life was too short, I concluded.

I would still write, of course (I must write), but it would be on my own terms.
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And whenever I do write, I’ve discovered that one works much better when surrounded by the faces of loved ones.



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And having someone supportive behind you is always a good feeling.

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I hope you enjoyed touring my creative space. Now ... I'm off to see what kind of fantastic spaces are waiting at Karen's blog party. Come on over and take a look.






Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Satisfying My Sweet Tooth ~ Simple Pleasures


Sometimes, I just have to satisfy my sweet tooth.


A few months ago, I found this wonderful coconut custard pie recipe over at a Lorraine's lovely blog. I've made it three times, which lets you know how good it is, not to mention easy. The original source of the recipe is found below. I changed the name of the recipe, but nothing else was changed. If you like coconut, this is a winner, and a definite simple pleasure (in small portions, of course ... wink, wink).

No-Crust Coconut Custard Pie

1 (14-ounce) can Eagle Brand Sweetened Condensed Milk (not evaporated milk)
1-1/2 cups water
1/3 cup biscuit baking mix (such as Bisquick of Jiffy)
3 eggs
1/4 cup butter, softened
1-1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
1 cup flaked coconut (more or less)

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.  

Place all ingredients (except coconut) in blender.
Blend on low speed for 3 minutes.  
Pour into greased 9 or 10-inch pie plate; let stand 5 minutes.
Sprinkle top with coconut.  
Mixture will be very runny. Carefully place in oven.
Bake 35 to 40 minutes or until coconut is golden brown and knife inserted near edge comes out clean.  
Cool. Serve warm or room temperature.
Refrigerate leftovers. (Also good served right out of refrigerator.)

Recipe source: Favorite Brand Name Best-Loved Recipes of All Time (copyright 1996 by Publications International, Ltd.)

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What's your simple/summertime pleasure?

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Sunday, July 10, 2011

A Day of Sweets


My adorable great-niece spent a day with me last week.

I can't remember when I've had so much fun.

A lump of sugar, she is.

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Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Fresh Garden Goodness ~ Simple, Summertime Pleasures



"The earth is the Lord's, and the fullness thereof."
(Psalm 24:1)

July 4th found me and The Man all alone, but we didn't let that keep us from enjoying an amazing meal. The Man slapped a couple of steaks on the grill, while I tackled this basket of beauties. In the end, there were two juicy steaks, fresh corn off-the-cob (my favorite way to eat fresh corn, with lots of black pepper), fresh peas, fried green tomatoes, sliced red tomatoes, and a skillet of cornbread. It doesn't get more Southern than that.

Fresh garden goodness from God's wonderful earth .... my simple, summertime pleasure.

Do you have a simple, summertime pleasure to share today? Last week you blew me away again, but that's nothing new. If this is your first time linking up, please read the guidelines on the Simple Pleasures page, before linking up. Important information can be found there. If you check back and find your link has been deleted, it isn't personal; please revisit the guidelines.

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Friday, July 1, 2011

The Gazebo : It took teamwork to build it

Last summer, The Man and I stopped at Home Depot and bought ourselves an outdoor fabric gazebo. It was something I'd wanted for a while, so, when they went on sale, we took the plunge.


If you want to read the rest of the saga, of how two people managed to put together 162 pieces, by following a few paragraphs of instructions, and how the whole ordeal taught me something about marriage, you can click on the image below.

If, however, you'd rather just see the pics of the gazebo, which has been shown on this blog at least a dozen times by now, maybe more, and will definitely be shown again, then skip right over the article and check out some of my favorite times under the gazebo.


I'm happy to declare that the gazebo has held up well, considering the intense heat we get here in our corner of the world, and it's never come close to blowing away, despite living near the Gulf Coast. And it even withstood a few puny icicles (the kind we get every blue moon in Southeast Texas). I'd say, for $200, if the gazebo blows away tomorrow, we've gotten our money's worth out of it.

Now, for your viewing pleasure ... Ladies and gentlemen ... The Gazebo!




  




The sad winter look.



Here's wishing you all a lovely 4th of July weekend, maybe under your own gazebo somewhere.

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