Tuesday, August 31, 2010

The Happy Flower ~ Outdoor Wednesday

While visiting Fort Michilimackinac during our recent travels,
I came across this bed of pure happiness.
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Aren't sunflowers just the happiest flower on earth?

This one wasn't opened up yet.
How can you see these kinds of things and not believe in a master Creator?

Gonna be a stunner!

Such beauty and perfection can only come from God.

The bees were out exploring.

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Linking up with Susan's Outdoor Wednesday series.
Click on over to see what else is being showcased.
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I plan to start the party an hour earlier this week.
Hope to see you there!

Monday, August 30, 2010

Monday Musings ~ On Aging

Me, in the turbulent years
In my late teens and early 20’s, I was a passionate and impetuous lost soul. I seriously had no clue. I blamed certain people for my lack of direction, and occasional bad behavior, and thought I had good reasons to do so. I read magazines with lots of quizzes in them and answered each question sincerely, hoping to discover how sexy, or romantic, or likable I was… or wasn’t, as was sometimes the case.

In retrospect, I don't think my youth was abnormal. Young people often find themselves feeling lost and rebellious, even preachers' kids, and sometimes especially preachers' kids. It took some hard knocks for me to finally gain my footing on the right path, and I hurt people along the way, for which I am truly sorry. I learned lessons the hard way, but I'm not sure there is any other way to learn them.

I'm glad those turbulent years are over. Aging certainly has its downside (that’s another post for another day), but aging has a way of clarifying things that once seemed hazy. You gain wisdom, for one thing. And don’t be misled. Wisdom and knowledge are not synonymous. Wisdom comes through living and learning, and seeking God's guidance.

I wish I could say that I have learned all of life’s lessons well.

I haven't.

I wish I could say that I've never made the same mistake twice.
Me, all grown up

I can't.

But, I have learned a few things. For example—YIPPEE!—I no longer need to take a quiz to know who I am. I'm not always pleased with the woman in the mirror, but at least I’m no longer in the dark. I know who I am—the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Aging has also taught me that even if you don’t get the life you once envisioned for yourself—you know the one with the flawless husband, the house on a hill, and three perfectly behaved children—you can still have a wonderful life. It all comes down to three things: the choices you make, the attitude you possess, and the way you respond to whatever the seasons bring you.

I would be less than honest if I said there aren’t brief moments when I feel a bit of yearning for a younger self, when time and the world seemed endless. When defining choices had not yet been made. When children played tag in the yard. When 40 seemed old. But if aging has taught me anything, it’s this: When all is said and done, we can’t go back in time. We can’t be younger, or more innocent. Life cannot be lived backwards. As Thomas Wolfe said, “You can’t go home again.” The moment you step out of one place in time, it doesn't wait for you to return. I realize this anew every time I go back to some place I used to live. They've torn up the roads, or put in a new grocery store, or demolished an old building. The wheels of change keep on turning. And the only way to get the most out of life is by moving forward, living fully in the present.

These are my thoughts on this final Monday in August.

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Thursday, August 26, 2010

The Friendship Quilts

In 1960, my dad accepted the pastorate of a church in Vicksburg, Mississippi. (In the photo, my mom and dad are on the left, and you can probably pick out me and my twin sister by the identical dresses on the front row.) We would stay in Vicksburg for the next six years, and establish friendships that endure to this day.

It was in Vicksburg that I started to school. It was there that my father’s vision for a new church building and location came to fruition. And it was in Vicksburg that we were presented with our first friendship quilt, bearing the embroidered names of most of the church members at that time.

(Click on photos for larger view.)

Such quilts are called “charm quilts,” or “friendship quilts,” and can take on various forms. This one has been cherished by our family for over four decades.


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In 1966, my dad accepted the pastorate of a church in Meridian, Mississippi. (Here he is with my mother, in front of the parsonage, in 1968.) And it was in Meridian that we received another friendship quilt, and one equally cherished.



The craftsmanship on either of these quilts is not perfect, but, to me, that only makes them more charming. They both bear the names of people near and dear to the hearts of my family. Friendship ... what a beautiful word.

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Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Simple Pleasures ~ Going Home


Ah ... home at last. Whether you’ve had a hard day at work, or been on a long vacation, going home is one of life’s simple pleasures. You may dwell in an apartment, a house, a mobile home, a log cabin, a one-room cottage, or a mansion on a hill. No matter. Going home brings with it a feeling like no other. Home has a way of grounding you. It's who you are and where you belong.

What simple pleasure have you been noticing and enjoying lately? You're invited to share with us here, every Thursday. I hope you will. For complete posting guidelines, please visit the Simple Pleasures page.

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Monday, August 23, 2010

A Dead Transmission ~ A Day to Remember

Getting stranded in the middle of nowhere is not my idea of how to start a vacation, but that is precisely what happened a number of years ago. It was just me, a dead transmission, and a sour attitude. But, I'm happy to say, that's not how it ended.

Here's the rest of the story, as it appeared in last Sunday's Beaumont Enterprise. You can click (twice) on the image for quicker reading, perhaps, or it's all below, should you be interested. It remains one of my favorite stories.


On a sweltering afternoon, my car's transmission went out, leaving me stranded in a small town between Houston and Dallas.

Luckily, I had managed to sputter into the parking lot of a barbecue joint, where, after making a phone call and ordering a large lemonade, I clopped up a hill to a picnic table and sat down to sulk. I had at least two hours to kill before help arrived, and I could think of a hundred things I’d rather be doing than twiddling my thumbs in the middle of nowhere.

God, I said with a stirring sigh, why did this have to happen?

I was headed to my sister’s, where the two of us were driving to a lakeside cabin—the first time we’d taken a vacation without husbands and kids. This delay wouldn’t stop our plans, but it did nothing for my mood.

As I brooded, a white-haired couple strolled up the hill, hand-in-hand with a young fellow about three years old who was doing serious damage to an ice-cream cone. Just what I needed—a pesky kid to annoy me.

With a friendly nod, they settled in at the picnic table across the way.

"Look at that big ant, Grandpa," the youngster said, his voice full of wonder. He hunched over the table inspecting his latest find, while a trail of ice-cream trickled down his fingers, headed for his elbow.

"You’re about to lose it, boy," Grandpa said, reaching for his hand. But the lad was quicker to the draw. Making loud slurping noises, he attacked the cone then got back to business.

"Did you know ants have 15 legs, Grandpa?" he said authoritatively.

"Fifteen? You sure about that?" He winked at Grandma.

“If I could fly, I'd fly up to the top of that big, old tree." The boy was now pointing to the tip of the oak towering above my head.

Grandma glanced up. "And what on earth would you do in the top of that big old tree?" she asked, her eyes clearly adoring the boy.

He knew immediately. "Just sit," he said. "Or sing. Or—" he shrugged his shoulders, "—something else."

The trio fell silent as the sun dipped behind a band of pines. I stood up and stretched, studying everything in sight. The smear of red in the west. My weary car. The barbecue stand. The dirt beneath my feet. And especially at the boy with the ice-cream cone who, for unknown reasons, was now twirling around like a ballerina, while Grandpa two-stepped around him, guarding the endangered cone.

"Hey!" the youngster shouted, spinning furiously. "I'm dizzy!" Staggering to a stop, the lad pitched backward and landed hard on the ground, somehow managing to keep a grip on the cone.

“Oops,” he said, embarrassed. “I slipped.”

Rallying around him, Grandpa helped him to his feet, brushed off his backside. "Come on, hot rod," he said. "Let's go see if your mama’s arrived."

As they headed down the slope, I stretched out under the oak tree and thought about the boy who, if he could fly, would be perched at its peak—just sitting, or singing or something.

The youngster saw wonders and possibilities right here under an ordinary sky, in what appeared to be a most improbable place.

And I had sat just a few feet away, yet had seen only calamities.

He saw the world as an endless adventure, just waiting to be unfolded and consumed.

While I, at some point, had simply stopped looking.

A breeze ruffled the leaves of the oak. I could still see the boy spinning in circles, his grandfather dancing around him.

All of a sudden, I laughed. Right there on a picnic bench, I laughed out loud. The sound of it, pure and sweet, burst into the pink sky and settled around me like a summer rain. My car’s transmission had not revived, but a weight seemed to lift. I felt liberated from something I couldn’t even define.

I had asked God why I’d been stranded in the middle of nowhere. He answered by sending an exuberant lad my way, to talk of ants, to dream of flying, to dance in the dust with a melting ice-cream cone—to open my eyes to the splendid treasures of an ordinary day.

I could think of no better way to start a vacation.

By Dayle Allen Shockley, from The Beaumont Enterprise. All rights reserved.


Linking up with Gratituesday, a great place to hang out.

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Saturday, August 21, 2010

The Homeward Stretch


The Man and I are winding down an extensive road trip. It was billed as our 30th Anniversary Tour, and has almost reached 30 days in its entirety. How ironic is that? I've enjoyed sharing several "Postcards From The Road" posts with those who keep up with me. It’s truly been an amazing trip. We’ll have covered some 5,000 miles by the time we get home and experienced some once-in-a-lifetime moments; I couldn’t have wished for anything more.

While we’re blessed, and so thankful, to be able to enjoy this season of life, there are days, whenever we’ve been away this long, that I miss the sights, the smells, the familiarity of home.

And so we press on, in the homeward stretch of the journey.

There’ll be a rush of adrenaline in a day or two, turning down the street that’s been ours for 21 years. There’ll be precious loved ones to hug and share souvenirs with, and longtime neighbors to wave hello to in the yard. These are but a few of the joys in going home.

Can you imagine the joys that await us at the end of life’s earthly journey? I recall the lyrics to an old, old song my dear parents used to sing. The chorus said: "When I've gone the last mile of the way; I will rest at the close of the day; And I know there are joys that await me; When I've gone the last mile of the way."

I can hardly wait.

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I'm happy to link up with Charlotte and Ginger today, for "Spiritual Sundays."
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Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Simple Pleasures ~ A Needle & Thread


Back in April, I visited an old five-and-dime store (remember those?) and picked up some tea towels and a package of press-on transfer sheets. Before we left town, I pressed one of the images onto a towel and figured I'd have something to do, should I get bored.

In years past, I've done both elaborate and simple needlework pieces. Either way, the motion of working with my hands, creating something with just a needle and thread, is a pleasure so simple, but hard to describe. I'm happy to say, this piece is all finished now and was quick and easy.

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What simple pleasure have you been noticing and enjoying lately? You're invited to share with us here, every Thursday. I hope you will. For complete posting guidelines, please visit the Simple Pleasures page.

Note: If you link up and later discover your post has been deleted, please review the guidelines. As fond of you as I am, posts not using a permalink can create an inconvenience for future readers and may be deleted. If that happens, please submit your post again, using only the permalink. If you have questions, I'm happy to try and answer them.

I'm still on the road, where the Internet can be sketchy, but I’ll be by to see you, sooner or later. Looking forward to it!

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Tuesday, August 17, 2010

The Campfire


A month is a long time to be away from home, but that was the original plan. It's now been three weeks. We have covered something like 3,000 miles, and had an incredible trip, so far. But ... The Man and I are considering making the homeward turn earlier than planned. It's not a settled matter yet. We'll hem and haw and all those things before a final decision is made. And, in the meantime, I will linger over the memory of the one and only campfire we've had on this trip, because I know, soon enough, we'll be heading south, and I know it's still hot as a firecracker in Texas, and a fire will be the last thing I'll want to see. But, for now, the memory rests easy on my mind.

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This post is part of the weekly series, "Tuesdays Unwrapped."



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Monday, August 16, 2010

Monday Musings

The Man and I have been gone from home almost three weeks now. It's been a wonderful trip, so far, but there are days when you feel a pull back to the people and things that make up your life at home. Some days you miss certain ones more than others.

Today, I'm missing my beautiful daughter.

And a certain grand-dog named Diesel.
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Here's wishing you all a blessed week.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Remembering Ona Jane

Today marks the birthday of my husband's paternal grandmother, Ona Jane. She passed away many years ago, but is pictured here with her husband, and their bouncing baby boy (my husband's father), in 1927. This is one of my favorite pictures from the past.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Simple Pleasures ~ Capturing the Moment

(Photo by Dayle)

On Saturday evening, The Man and I drove over Michigan's Mackinac Bridge, into the little town of St. Ignace. I wasn't expecting to see much; we were just sort of killing time. We stopped and went into a small souvenir shop, sitting right on the banks of Lake Michigan. There was a walkway with a railing behind the store, and, as we stood there, looking out over the calm waters of the lake, I ran and grabbed my camera from the car and snapped this photograph. It contains no editing, as God's artwork doesn't need it. To me, it speaks of pure peace.

"Photography is important because it takes a minute and makes it an eternity," wrote Isaac B. Singer.

Capturing moods and feelings with my camera ... it's one of my ultimate simple pleasures.

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I've lived long enough to realize that the simple pleasures of life are the most important ones, but it's easy to let them slip by, unnoticed, during the busyness of an ordinary day. That's why I created the Simple Pleasures series, to remind me to stop, to look, to listen, to slow down and pay closer attention to life's simple things. And whenever I do, I'm never disappointed. It might be the sound of a baby's laugh, the gentle splash of a summer rain against the window, or flowers in a jar on the kitchen windowsill.

What simple pleasure have you been noticing and enjoying lately? You're invited to share your simple pleasures with us here, every Thursday. I hope you will. For complete posting guidelines, please visit the Simple Pleasures page.

Note: If you link up and later discover your post has been deleted, please review the guidelines. As fond of you as I am, posts not using a permalink can create an inconvenience for future readers and may be deleted. If that happens, please submit your post again, using only the permalink. If you have questions, I'm happy to try and answer them. Please be aware that, for now, you can type up to 50 characters in the space that says "Name."

I'm looking forward to visiting with you this week!

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Postcards From The Road ~ 30th Anniversary Tour, Mackinac Island

I have at least 150 photographs I could share here from our wonderful 30th anniversary weekend on Michigan's Mackinac Island, but I will try to pick and choose a few of my favorites.

The Man, waiting to board the ferry.

While others took the carriages to the hotel, we decided to cover the distance on foot.

We rounded the corner and there was The Grand Hotel, in all of her grandeur. 
We stayed here two nights.

Guests are given dress codes before they ever enter the hotel.
After 6:00, you must be dressed up.
It was wonderful seeing people looking their best.

This is the magnificent 660-foot porch, so rich in history. Hard to imagine, but people have been sitting on this porch since the hotel opened in 1887. The history is fascinating.



Taken through the window, while eating breakfast.

The view from the dining room.

Everything around the hotel is bathed in flowers, even the garbage cans.

Overlooking the lower garden.

This was taken in the lower garden area.

That's me, waving through the spray of the fountain.

This garden is in a median right outside the hotel's side entrance. A gardener's dream.

Everywhere you look, there's something wonderful to see.

Inside the hotel's carriage, on our way into town.

The flags, waving behind us.

The hotel's carriage takes guests wherever they need to go, for a fee of $4.75 per person. We walked most places, but used the carriage a few times.


It rained a bit Monday morning, but not for long. The temps were in the 70's the whole time we were there. As you can see, Mackinac Island is a step back in time.

Evenings are an enchanting time at The Grand Hotel.

The porch is the most popular place for photographs.
The hotel provides professional photographers each evening, or you can take your own.

If you look closely, you can see Mackinaw Bridge.

This is one of my favorite shots.

I could post lots more pictures, both from Mackinaw City and Mackinac Island, but don't want to overdo it or wear anybody out. I'll save some for another time. Thanks for all of your warm comments and generous thoughts regarding my 30th anniversary postings. You are so kind. I'm grateful to God for this special time with my husband, and never take it for granted. Lord willing, Cloud Nine will be pulling out tomorrow, back on the road again.

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